Monday, December 21, 2009
My oh my, relationships.
Trust is what holds a relationship together. I've seen relationships fall apart because of trust issues. The boyfriend or the girlfriend gets paranoid when the other is doing NOTHING. They get paranoid because they get so afraid that they'll get hurt. But eventually, the other one then gets sick & tired of it & just call it quits. But I've also seen relationships get stronger because of trust issues. They learn to become vulnerable to the little things they do, so they try to be careful & make sure that they don't make the same mistake they've made before in the past. They do whatever it takes to gain their trust back. They're willing to take the risk of making the relationship work. But whether it works out or not, time doesn't stop for one person, it keeps going. You're probably like, "Yeah, that's so true." or something like that. Because we all know what that's like. To go through the issues of trust. If we don't have trust, we have nothing. If you don't know what it's like, you probably have some type of feeling of what it's like. & it's funny when friends hear about it, they're like, "Why are you still with him/her?" & you tell them that it's because you still love them. I'm pretty sure that's correct, but is love really worth all that hurt in the end? To me & Jenn it's like, no one falls in love by choice, it's by chance. No one stays in love by chance, but by work. And no one falls out of love by chance, it's by choice. It's like you have the option to keep working at it or you just throw it all away & just live your life the way you want to without any delay. We've been giving two hands, two feet, two eyes, but why one heart? Because the other is the one we have to look for. We have options to choose from, decisions to make, & a life to live. Why not live it to the fullest? Whether we're single or taken, make it worth it all in the end. It isn't what you got that makes you, you. It's what you make of what you got that makes you, you. So why not just live life & make it a satisfaction. Even if drama from a relationship or from outside a relationship comes, just dust yo shoulders off like a straight up OG, nigggga! Hahahaha :D
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